‘De’ = From, ‘Sire’ = Father.

‘Be’ (Yourself) + ‘For’ and not in the way of your Father’s giving.

If you haven’t understood (yet) that God created our lives as a series of still pictures, that, when scanned, and animated with His breath of life, form a hologram, which can be re-arranged, completely started over, put in different interactive sequences, or directed toward any outcome on each level of truth, with which they are dealing, according to our state (nation, imag-i-nation), just as a movie, I will confuse you even more with this contents.

Why does Hebrew interpretation of the Torah say that the ONLY feast to be celebrated in the end-times will be Purim, the feast of Ester, where they drink more wine than usual in order to forget the separation of heaven & earth, and the challenge of boot-camp in hell to go directly into spirit, or heaven, where everything is alright?

If you saw “Bringing up Baby” starring Kate Hepburn and Cary Grant, you know that simply stating “Everything is going to be alright, David (eternal youth)” just makes it so.

However, I even venture farther, as usual, saying that the ‘time’ to celebrate is WHEN you have received your DE SIRE, for it is the package confirmation slip, telling you it’s here, only you may not be present, although you have been pre - sent (made suitable, trained for the role, plot, script, part in the divine plot, or Mystery setting).

When you think you should have $100,000, it is because God gave them to you, before He lets you know, and also constructed a master plan by having all types of people ask you for your financial help… you give the help, for you know, there’s more from where the $100,000 came.

The feeling of joy by being helpful is the purpose of God’s very own existence. His commandment is to be
Joyful & to PRAISE Him always.

You can do this by praising every one around you, because in them is God, the puppet master. Should you complain, He will make it worse. He only knows joy, and when you focus on complaining, He thinks you enjoy complaining. Should you resent what He does, He will RE-SEND it, to make you even more joyful.

He gives you your ‘from Father’, AFTER He has already supplied it. It’s like Christmas, when all gifts are already in the house, but for some reason every one agrees to open them later (in linear time), on December 25, even though Jesus’ birthday is August 21, 7 BC (www.urantia.com), 3 years before Herod’s death in 4 BC.

Everything is INTERACTIVE. The instructions from God hitting the right brain hemisphere, and beyond the life-functions of our bodies are based upon prior feed-back from the left as what makes us happy, and what our predominant condition has been when we focus. Then we go, as did Jesus The Christ, about re-arranging things as we feel and like, when people are called into our lives. The only difference is that Jesus, or God in full copy, knew the outcome, and we know it not yet.

Since we do not know the outcome and have been provided with an extended, or stretched moment of so-called linear time to apply the tooth, or consuming fire that is part of Jesus The Christ’s name (Jehoshua in Hebrew) and the nature for which we aim, in difference to God Himself, whose name has these two letters missing, because He is unchangingly perfect, we work our way effortlessly to what we can conceive the perfect outcome might be like, in this pre-sent state of mind we occupy.

One question is worrying most of us, though. How do we know that the end of God’s plot agrees with our own world-perception, and that it is going to be desirable for all?

Well the end is already finished (in timeless reality), and the world is still standing.

Here is the very reason why we are not to worry: God holds all charge. The main structure is in tact. The laws work. And

ALL roads lead to Rome,

the very, truly magnificent ending of THE plot, regardless of what any one thinks, says, or does, God will never not be in charge, and He appointed a capable guy named Jesus, who came here in the flesh, sired directly by God to be the Governor over our power, until we follow in His steps, simultaneous steps, not linear. In fact, He presented the PERFECT way for the return into paradise by ‘dying’ for the plot, but instantly re-vitalizing His perfect image. When He said “sanctify me, so I may sanctify them”, He referred to the Water-tower principle. Like the water in our cities, we would have nothing to which to aspire, without Him.

We can only get charged with this God-power, when we figuratively stick our finger in the thin, narrow laser that feeds us and does not consume. Before we can do it, we need to be fearless and convinced of the quality and exactitude of the blue-print master plan by a God, who makes no mistakes.

Why don’t we just simply rely on God, the Father, doing the RIGHT THING?

We know not what we do, but we are forgiven, for our Father is behind EVERYTHING.

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Having a little trouble getting out of bed in the morning can be a little difficult. But there are sometimes some things that we do on a regular basis that might make it a little more difficult.

This article will show how you can stop procrastination, and do the things that you want to do.

A good place to begin would be to look at why you have such a hard time getting up. Is it because you are not getting enough sleep - maybe watching those late night movies? Is there a health reason? Are you eating right, getting enough exercise? All of these things have a part in our daily energy levels. Honestly ask yourself these questions - part of the problem may lie there.

Since you say that motivation seems to be the main problem, then, let’s continue talking about how to stop procrastination. Here are five steps that will help.

Stop procrastination by:

1. Getting a strong realization that life is passing away.

While you may be young still (?), there is no guarantee of tomorrow. The things you do today are building your character for tomorrow - only the clay gets harder and the patterns of life become more rigid with time. Life is too short to pass it away in bed. Life is to be enjoyed.

2. Understanding that successful people learn to say “No.”

You have determined that there are some things that are good, and that you want to do them. Somewhere down the line you will see that those who do what they should, are also those who often do what they must in spite of how they feel. Stop procrastination by saying no to the insignificant things (like hitting the snooze button), and start saying yes to building the rest of your life.

3. Set some goals for yourself.

Here comes the difficult part. Sit down and draw up some plans. Determine what is important to you, and write them down. Next, draw up some realistic goals that will allow you to accomplish them. Make daily goals of small changes that will allow you to start saying no to the lazy side of yourself, and slowly build up a stronger character, body, and will power. You might start with something like setting your
alarm 10 minutes earlier - and then slowly increasing it earlier - until you are in the habit of saying no to staying in bed too long.

4. Becoming more responsible.

While only you know what your goals may be, the bottom line is that it is you that are going to have to make the necessary changes. After you choose your goals, then review them regularly, and then proceed to set some time aside for those projects, and slowly work toward accomplishing them. If you even spent 15 to 20 minutes a day on them, just think what could be done in a year’s time.

What a way to stop procrastination - one day at a time!

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Someone once said: “A lot of people who look forward to an eternity of peace don’t know what to do with themselves on a rainy Saturday afternoon.” It seems to be generally accepted by a lot of people who are getting on in years, that if only they can save enough money for retirement, they’ll finally have that time of relaxation they’ve been looking for. Anyway, that’s what a friend of mine thought. He and his wife were able to save a good chunk of money and when he retired a few years ago, he figured his time had come. But it wasn’t too many months later that he realized that for the first time in his life, he was seriously depressed. He was flabbergasted. He’d worked his whole life thinking that retirement was going to be the high point of his life, but that wasn’t anything like the way it was working out. That’s when he talked with me about his situation.

It didn’t take us long to figure out what was wrong. Up until retirement, there was hardly a day in his life when he didn’t have a bunch of challenges confronting him. He had a job that forced him to constantly solve problems. Solving problems made him tired - and one of the biggest appeals of retirement was the idea he wouldn’t be tired any more - but what he didn’t catch on to until after retirement is that solving problems also made him feel alive. His depression, it was clear to me, was being caused by a life of challenge-less fun.

So what to do. He didn’t want to go back to his old job - or to any regular job - because the bureaucracy of it annoyed him. He thought about volunteer work, and though he liked the idea of helping others, he was afraid that most of what he would be asked to do wouldn’t be solving interesting problems. And then he came up with an idea that turned out to be brilliant. He asked me if he could work for me - for free, but only on interesting problems. I jumped at the idea because my company had plenty of interesting problems that needed attention, but I couldn’t afford to hire anyone to focus on them, so they just hung around until they got so bad I had to attend to them. My friend started working for me four months ago, and since then, things have gotten way better for both of us - I have way fewer problems, and he’s happy as a clam.

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Once upon a time there lived two bears in a jungle. Like all bears they loved Honey. But getting Honey was not easy, it was risky, honey bees were ready to attack anyone who tried to get Honey.

Out of those two bears the First bear tried for Honey and honey bees attacked him. He failed in first attempt. He was so scared of honey bees that he desired for honey but never dared to try again. He played safe. He lost the opportunity to gain strength and vigour he could have got from Honey. He remained an ordinary bear. He lived safe and died safe.

The Second bear was also in quest for Honey, he failed once. But he derived strength from strong desire for Honey. He made many attempts, was attacked many times by honey bees. The tenacious bear finally got Honey he desired for. He gained enormous strength from Honey. Thereafter the Second bear tried many times for Honey, each time with more strength and more confidence, and most of the times he got that.

Now you decide two things, Whose path you want to follow? The one followed by First bear or the one followed by Second bear?

Decide what is Honey for you; great job, profitable business, b-school admission, faithful companion, peace of mind or just anything you desire for. Give your best shot for it and Don’t give up. Its better to be sorry than to remain safe.

Your Honey is waiting for you. Go Get It !

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A Simple Person trying to understand this complex world.
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I see this world with eyes of a curious child, In my mind questions gallore, All why’s and how’s I want to explore , My Blog is about my endless curiosity, The way I see the world, I am not an expert, neither wise nor gifted, I am The Ignorant, a curious child.

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I would like to address the child that is within each of us. That part of our psyche that has been injured, the part which is responsible for the way we react in any given situation. I am not referring necessarily to favorable responses, but negative ones. I would like to address those cruel physical and psychological blows that we received as children, the ones that we carry with us even now. No matter how old we are, we have that hurting child. I am here to help you love and nurture that child. That child that is hurting within you doesn’t have to hurt forever. It can feel the love and acceptance it so very desperately needs.

Many of us have automatic responses to various issues that are quite destructive. They are destructive to others and also destructive to ourselves. Although many times, we are taught to modify our behavior and control these responses, we still have those feelings. We carry within us anger and hurt, many times not even aware of it. You see, we carry within us invisible stains from when the child within us was severely hurt and neglected. We are not even aware that they are there, as we have become used to them. They are invisible. Therefore, we have certain automatic reactions to various stimuli that we encounter during our life’s path. These invisible stains color our lives, our decisions, and our reactions. However, all is not lost. We can realize what stains we have and we can work on them. We don’t necessarily have to live our lives having these stains leave destructive spots in our lives. They will always be there, but we can be aware of them and pour our healing bleach on them. Some we can totally obliterate, some we can only lighten. Some have affected us so, that they are always there and will never go away. However, just knowing why we are reacting in a certain way, we can learn and modify our reactions, thereby creating a better life.

You see, we are not children anymore. We are adults and we really do have control of our lives. Let the adult in you take responsibility for the child in you and have that adult care for that child.

Let me skim over these Invisible Stains that we carry. Let us gain a little insight as to why we react the way we do. Why we lash out, why we cry, why we are so insecure. The reasons are so subtle that one could go a lifetime and not realize that it is their inner child that is so very wounded. It is the inner child that has never been truly loved and accepted.

I will list the eight most important factors for our feelings of worthlessness. These are the primary eight Invisible Stains.

1. You are an Illegitimate Child: This one has lost its punch in today’s society, in America anyway, but it is still there. Well for us older folks though, back when we were children those born of unmarried parents were looked down upon and even ostracized. This is a most painful invisible stain for someone to have to live with. And there are people out there now walking around with this stain. Oh, you may have dealt with it now, you have walked life’s pathway and things seem so easier now. However, this may very well be a stain that you carry about with you. Notice your reactions to circumstances. How do you feel about yourself? How is your self esteem?

One carrying this most painful stain needs to realize that regardless of society’s views they are a person no less valuable than anyone else. Society places labels on us. You are either worthy or worthless. NOBODY IS WORTHLESS. We are all in this world together to learn, grow, and enrich ourselves. Although our world has changed where this is not such a stigma anymore, you will be surprised at how many people there are that still make you feel as though you are not worthy. Hold your head high and live your life. Know who you are and what you are and learn how to blot this stain out. It cannot be done overnight, but it can be learned and practiced. Eventually, you will have freed yourself from one of the chains that bind you. Who cares what others think? Not only on this subject, but on any other subject.

2. Dad and Mom Do Not Love me: This could also be that Dad and Mom do not know how to show love. The same thing. A child needs most of all love, hugs, positive reinforcement from the minute they are born. They need to be guided carefully and lovingly as they grow. We moms and dads know that it is impossible for us to be loving every waking minute, as we are human and we do have our own invisible stains to deal with, but we must work on our own stains doing the best we can, as we do our best to make sure our child does not acquire this stain in their own lives. A child living without a parent’s love is alone and isolated. In essence, the child is being told, You are not worthy of my love. The child develops a sense of worthlessness. This is where many of our children get into trouble with drug addiction, bad relationships, many joining religious cults, because they need to be loved. Drugs will make you feel better, good about yourself. They may even empower you for a time. Bad relationships, gangs, religious cults, these all give the appearance of acceptance and love. This is why we lose so many of our children to these destructive paths. You may have gone down one of these paths yourself. We are born with a need to be loved and accepted. If we do not receive this from someone, somewhere, we feel unworthy and unloved. Learning to love and appreciate yourself is a learning process, but once you start learning and applying it, you see how you will grow upwards and outwards. If this is you, it is possible for you to live a happy loving and balanced life. It does take time.

3. Friends Make Fun of Me: For a child to be made fun of, singled out, and thereby ostracized can damage them for life. This is another most important invisible stain. Remember, our primary need is to feel loved and accepted. Every single person on the planet needs this and struggles with this, not just you. Once we realize this, we have a chunk of this stain bleached. As a mother, I struggled and hurt for my daughter. One of the most terrible things in life is watching your child suffer. My daughter, for some reason or another was the one child that everyone picked on. She hated school. She cried every day. Sometimes the other children were very cruel to her and would hit her. During her junior high school days I was at the principal’s office almost every day trying to solve this problem. Unfortunately, this is not a problem a parent can solve for a child. This is one of the child’s own learning lessons. You may guide them, give them support, all your love and hold them as they cry with their little hearts broken. Other than that, there is really little you can do. In today’s world, the bullying is quite worse and if this would have happened in today’s day and age, I believe I would have home schooled her as I would have been afraid for her safety. How did this affect my daughter in her adult life? Well, she is a very strong individual and nobody will hurt her or her children. She has a temper that you cannot imagine. Actually, it can be abusive at many times. And she is an alcoholic. Her dad may have also helped her become this way, as he was also an alcoholic and verbally abusive. So she had two strikes against her. Drinking and abuse is a learned behavior and, at the same time, a way to stop the pain and gain the feeling of strength and power. With alcoholism this sense of wellbeing is very temporary and will plummet you to deeper depths of despair.

4. I Am Not Good Enough: This is a root belief that a person holds because of many experiences in life. The above examples can most certainly give you this belief, along with many others. Yes, with hard work and loving yourself, this can be overcome.

5. I Grew Up Poor and Never Had Anything: This can be very difficult on a child that sees the other kids get everything they want. Children are cruel. Many times this can be thrown in their faces. They may be made fun of, they may not feel loved and accepted. You will notice that all of these stains deal with the basic root of love and acceptance, something every human being needs for their healthy emotional wellbeing.

6. I Was Abused: Here is a big stain. If you abuse your child, physically, verbally, or both, that child will grow up marred. The child will either be very, very frightened, or very, very angry. Sometimes a combination of both. Again, the love and acceptance is missing. The feeling of being unworthy will take over. This will be acted upon in life in a variety of ways. I was verbally and physically abused. My reaction was fear. Fear of everything. Even while I was a parent, I carried this invisible stain, and no matter how you try to love and nurture your child, you cannot be effective if you, yourself, live in fear. I acquired a panic disorder and became agoraphobic. I have two articles that I would love for you to read that deal with my abusive childhood. They are at thecorner4women.com. Please go to Luella’s Corner and read, My Lost Years and Goodbye Forever. This has been my struggle. I am now 55 years old. Although, a very young 55 I will say. In my heart I am a child and will never grow up, not ever. I love life and will never stop. And when my time for my appointed transition arrives, I pray that I may always love life and never lose the essence of who I am now. I would truly hate to start over. Yes, heaven, the after life. That is a totally different subject that I shall address at a different time.

7. I Am Ugly and Fat: No matter what you look like you are a most worthy and wonderful person. You can look at every individual on this planet and see a beauty about them. Yes, a beauty that makes them most attractive. We all have this beauty. If we do not know what it is, we must find it. Just by being who we are, that is our beauty. Remember folks, our outward beauty means nothing. It is who we are inside. One day we all will age and lose that beauty. If that is what you rely on, you are in for a heap of issues. Remember the song, Beauty is only skin deep, yeah, yeah, yeah. How true. Love yourself for who you are. Even with all my faults, I love myself and accept myself, and I love you and accept you. If this was a stain acquired in childhood, yes, it is something that must be worked on. But you can bleach it out.

8. I have failed: We all have failed. I fail numerous times a day at so many things. And then in life, I have failed miserably. You simply, pick yourself up, wipe yourself off and start again. You are not the only one that fails. We all fail. You are not the only one that feels alone and unloved. We all do. It is our human nature.

All these stains can be either bleached out our lightened considerably. As you will read in my Goodbye Forever Article, at Luella’s Corner, I still have a very light spot I carry about with me but I am able to function and I am able to love and now I know I am loved. I have someone that loves me so very much and I also love him with the same depth. My Bus Kids love me and I love them. My teens love me and I love them. Elyse and Cassie, I love them dearly. Mostly Elyse, she is my special angel. And one day I will stand proud as she is a success in life and I will cry tears of joy.

These invisible stains merely require certain stain treatments to be washed out of your life. This is not easy to do. It is very hard work, sometimes taking many years. But don’t give up. Keep going forward. Many give up. Don’t YOU give up. Life is too beautiful and exciting.

One thing that I have missed. You are in control of your life now. Others are not. You are not a child and nobody has any power over you. Find positive people to hang around. They will influence you and their ways will become your ways. To be emotionally healthy you need to take care of yourself and to do what is necessary. Even if it requires taking medication and seeing someone to talk to. Whatever it takes. Health is the physical and emotional together.

©Luella May 2006

Luella May is currently the co-founder and editor of “The Corner 4Women.com” http://www.thecorner4women.com/ and writes exclusively for her blog http://www.thecorner4women.blogspot.com/ and Luella’s Corner http://www.oakwoodgrafix.co.uk/blog/LuellasCorner/

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